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Hello Again


I have already sent a message but have had various replies tried to reply to them but I am a bit confused with this site?

I will start again. I am 53 and the guy I had a first date with last Sunday is 53 and his divorce will be through in November. I have been separated for 6yrs and my divorce througbn shortly.

Met an ex Police Officer on POF site, (his friend had put him on the site) and Colin the guy I have been chatting to on the site is quite a reserved shy guy.

I started the chat by getting in touch with him first and we have kept the flow going now for 3wks until the date. Prior to the date he was ringing me and texting me and was on the phone at one point from 12.30 - 3.30a.m. in the morning.
He has seen my photos and I his and we got on absolutely great on the internet.

He has also bought tickets for us both to go to the Theatre on 15th September.

I met him last Sunday night and we got on great really easy to talk to and we both never stopped talking. He never held my hand or attempted to kiss me when we parted. I went to kiss him lightly on the lips when we first met.

I asked him at the end of the night had he enjoyed the night and he said yes and
Said he was looking forward to the 15th Sep. He gestured with his hands a typing thing meaning to get on line again.

However I have not had a phone call, text or a message from him.

Can I just say that 6wks ago he went out on a date with another woman from the same site. He said she was pleasant enough but not for him and he just left it and never got in touch with her. I feel maybe he is doing the same to me but unsure?

Does he think that I have not been keen on him and is frightened to get in touch with me in case the consequences are not what he wants to hear or do you think he is not interested?

I do like him a lot and after being married for 28yrs and finding out his wife has been having an affair for the last 6 yrs he was gutted but now getting on with life and finding new things to do with his freedom of being on his own.

He did say at one point when we were out together that he didn't know what he wanted as been with his wife for over 30yrs as was courting her before they were courting before they were both 20. He dosen't want her back as he has high moral standards but it has been a drastic change to his life being with a woman and then suddenly not.

Should I contact him as now 3 days since our date or leave it in case I get the answer I don't want to hear?

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