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    Aug 28, 2012, 12:25 PM
    I want to be adopted by loving family
    Hi eveybody my name is Nora ,I'm 22 years old female ,I'm Iraqi live and study in Ukraine ,I was Muslim but I spend 2 years in Ukaine and I met Russian friends who are Christian and they succeed to change my mind about God and now I'm Christian,but my family don't understand this,because being not Muslim is not acceptable in our society ,I really don't know what I will do after I finish my collage (I study pharmacy) or in which country I will live , because I'm not welcomed in my family anymore, I want some family to adopte me ,I don't mind if it is a single mom or dad , I will not rely on financially, I just want a home and loving family to spend the summer with, and when I will finish collage I want to live near them , I don't care in which countery they live , I just want love and caring , if any family feels like they want me please contact me on this Email >email address removed for safety<
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    Aug 28, 2012, 12:29 PM
    If you are 22 you are an adult... what would be the purpose of an adoption now?
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    Aug 28, 2012, 12:54 PM
    I only want to feel a member of I family , be needed and loved , when my family told me I can't contact them anymore I felt hopless because for me the family is the most important thing in life, I need a mom and a dad ,to ask me "how are you" "is everything ok" I want a family to spend holidays and Christmas with now I feel I'm all my own :( I have only God .
    My real age is 20 I was born in 18/12/1991.
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    Aug 28, 2012, 12:59 PM
    We call people you need like this friends...

    People generally don't adopt other adults... there is no real purpose for it.

    Besides... you can't get adopted without your current families concent.. or a court order that strips away their parental rights first.
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    Aug 28, 2012, 01:00 PM
    Why did you say you are 22 when you are only 20?

    You connect with other Christians and create your own family, a friendship network. No one is going to adopt an adult woman or man.
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    Aug 28, 2012, 01:15 PM
    I know I'm not a kid to be adopted,but if there is a 50 years couple,younger or oldder not important want to feel like parents,I will be happy to be there loving duaghter .
    I tried to have friends at the Church but you don't know that Russin people are racist, even in Church, and because I'm Iraqi they don't involved with me, I only want a family to call them when I feel alone , and spend time as much as I can with them and I if they will need me I will be there for them .
    Wondergirl>my parents made me go to school 2 years earlier than the ligal age .
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    Aug 28, 2012, 01:18 PM
    You have to understand what adoption is and how it works... and what purpose it serves.
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    Aug 28, 2012, 01:25 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    You have to understand what adoption is and how it works....and what purpose it serves.
    I know that I must give up my biological family
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    Aug 28, 2012, 01:29 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    You have to understand what adoption is and how it works....and what purpose it serves.
    I wouldn't mind being adopted by a loving family so I would not have to go through house renovations and working long hours full time. I can wash dishes and... Lots of stuff
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    Aug 28, 2012, 01:40 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by tickle View Post
    I wouldn't mind being adopted by a loving family so I would not have to go through house renovations and working long hours full time. I can wash dishes and... Lots of stuff
    Hmmm, do you do windows?

    Nora, can you make baklava?
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    Aug 28, 2012, 02:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Hmmm, do you do windows?

    Nora, can you make baklava?
    Yes ,it's a popular sweets in Iraq , I really miss it
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    Aug 28, 2012, 02:28 PM
    Can you make it now?
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    Aug 28, 2012, 03:35 PM
    Yes I do windies and I also make baklava, mmmm, what a wonderful desert with good vanilla ice cream, or,, fresh cream... or,,
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    Aug 29, 2012, 02:48 AM
    Yes I can , But for whom?
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    Aug 29, 2012, 02:33 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Nora92 View Post
    Yes I can , But for whom ??

    Nora, adoption is not the answer for you. I would serve no purpose - unless you are planning to inherit from a family and believe that adoption would guarantee an inheritance.

    You cannot be the only Christian in your area. I have friends who are more dear to me than some of my own family members. I don't expect them to adopt me.

    I think you need to work on a circle of supportive friends.

    My other concern is that you posted an incorrect age, posted what may or may not be your correct age, explained that you are confused because your parents forced you to go to school two years early. This makes little or no sense, and I would think that a family that would even consider adopting you would insist on complete honesty from you. I'm not seeing that here.

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