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    Aug 26, 2012, 08:16 PM
    My fiancée is always mad and we have no sex life
    I've been with my fiancée for about 3 years and we have a child together. He is collecting disability and takes care of our daughter when I work. He is mad because he is home all day and he has no friends. He doesn't like to go out or even be social, how can he be happy?

    He gets mad so easily over the dumbest things also. I hear him complain At least 4 hours a day. It's getting annoying and when I try to talk to him about it he gets mad and fights with me. We have sex like once a month and I'm starving for sex!! He hasn't kissed me
    In over two years and I love to be cuddled with and I love romance, he refuses to do any of this. I depend on him for half of the bills, and I just don't know what to do. I want more in life and he doesn't.
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    Aug 26, 2012, 08:52 PM
    Why is he collecting disability?
    Maybe he is depressed, maybe he'd like to be working.
    Do you try and talking to him about what he may be feeling or only what you are feeling?
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    Aug 26, 2012, 09:15 PM
    He is a "schizophrenic". But he hasn't had an episode in about 5 years. I try asking him what he wants to do in life and what would make him happy and he says he wants to drive trucks but as soon as I pay hundreds of dollars for him to start training class he quits. He never finishes what he starts. He used to be extremely violent when he got angry, and Im afraid if I express
    To him how I feel he will be aggressive again. I try and help him, but it gets no where. I have dreams of opening my own business I am very independent, I just wish he was more motivated in life. He also takes suboxone which I don't think he should be taking. He hasn't been a heroin addict in over 10 years. It causes him to sleep alllllll day about 15 hours a day.
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    Aug 27, 2012, 07:14 AM
    It might be time to end this relationship. That's a lot of drama.
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    Aug 27, 2012, 11:55 AM
    Do you go to his doctors appointments with him? Or does he even go regularly? Sounds like he is in a terrible rut, and all you can do is not be in one with him. Build a life that you enjoy and find a way to NOT be dependent on his disability check.

    That takes a plan.
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