[braindamage]

Hey there, thanks for reading first off.. so I'm just going to get to the point lol. So I've been in like with this guy for 2 years. One day he decided to ask me to hang out and of course I say yes. We hangout and its great we really connect and it was just a great time. On the same night I made love for the first time to him. It was like the right time the right moment with the right person. After that night, I kind of lost my obsession for him oddly enough and I told him straight up that I don't want a commitment and I could tell he understood and that he agreed he did not want one either. I even told him he didn't have to call me after that night. But he did and for once he seemed like he genuinely cared and liked me. We met up again and had a great time yada yada. He even said that we had "chemistry" together. Being in like with this guy for two years I could tell when he's bullting and he wasn't. But its been two weeks.. he hasn't called texted or nothing. I took the liberty to text him "how are you?" he answerd saying he was good and asked me how I was.. then he didn't answer me back. And I could just tell something is going on. I keep thinking its something I did or I don't know. Bottom like I don't know if I should confront him about this. Just for me though. So should I?

[teacherjenn4]

I hate to say that when you slept with him on the first date, you gave him what he wanted. You didn't develop a relationship with him. You didn't even date him. Is that the type of thing you are looking for?

[odinn7]

You told him you didn't want anything more from him so he went somewhere else.

[Homegirl 50]

You do not have a relationship. You are a booty call. That's all. He has probably gotten another and you are old news.
Leave him alone and be glad you are out of this mess.

[Danielle Wright]

You should just leave him alone he's not into you he just wanted to now that he got it he done with you besides you told him what it was an he didn't like that but sorry to say but enter confront him just move on

[Homegirl 50]

You told him what you were about at the beginning. He got it. Now leave him alone.

[ankitdxt79]

This is a situation that you have been friend zoning to him like for two years... and as you said you did "that" with him,, that's not all about... he was behind u,that directly indicates he loves you,, and as you have told that he cared for u,,
Then from my point of view that its your fault,, me being a guy can say that its not only you that can run a perfect relationship with him,, as things you mentioned directly points that you was quite rigid with him,, n after all how long he will have to wait for u... so I guess... u should call him and if you really likes him,, start the friend zoning again... :)
Regards.
Good luck