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Aug 22, 2012, 04:34 PM
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Getting mad at the smallest thing...
So my boyfriend calls me right after he gets off work telling me to come over to his place. I told him that I was busy doing some stuff with my aunt and as soon as I was done that I would be right over. He said OK, after I finish what I was doing (40 minutes later) he text me telling not to come over and not to worry about it. He was really upset about it so I called him and he rejected my call. Seriously? Why do guys do this?
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Aug 23, 2012, 04:28 AM
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Well first off, "guy's" don't do this, that's just judgemental. Why he's acting like an arrogant baby is known only to him. Have you tried asking him what his problem is? If you can't communicate well as a couple, then you're wasting time being together, because it will never work without effective communication.
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Aug 23, 2012, 05:45 AM
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 Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace
Well first off, "guy's" don't do this, that's just judgemental. Why he's acting like an arrogant baby is known only to him. Have you tried asking him what his problem is? If you can't communicate well as a couple, then you're wasting time being together, because it will never work without effective communication.
Yes I know that communication is the key to every relationship. We talked about the situation. All fixed though. Thank you
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Aug 23, 2012, 06:02 AM
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Originally Posted by M2125
So my boyfriend calls me right after he gets off of work telling me to come over to his place. I told him that I was busy doing some stuff with my aunt and as soon as I was done that I would be right over. He said ok, after I finish what I was doing (40 mins later) he text me telling not to come over and not to worry about it. I call him and he was really upset about it. I called him and he rejected my call. Seriously? Why do guys do this?
I agree - guys don't do this. Fill in any gender, race, creed, and it's just as judgmental.
"Guys" don't do this. Your boyfriend does this.
Maybe he's punishing you. Maybe it's something else.
Ask him.
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Aug 23, 2012, 07:21 AM
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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee
I agree - guys don't do this. Fill in any gender, race, creed, and it's just as judgmental.
"Guys" don't do this. Your boyfriend does this.
Maybe he's punishing you. Maybe it's something else.
Ask him.
I am happy. It was just a question, Ive never had a situation before.
Im sorry that you think that Im not happy when I am and obviously relationships are not always going to be perfect and peachy without arguments or difficulties.
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Aug 23, 2012, 07:29 AM
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Originally Posted by M2125
I am happy. It was just a question, Ive never had a situation before.
Im sorry that you think that Im not happy when I am and obviously relationships are not always going to be perfect and peachy without arguments or difficulties.
Sorry - I thought you posted here, on a Q and A board, because you were seeking advice.
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Aug 23, 2012, 07:34 AM
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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee
Sorry - I thought you posted here, on a Q and A board, because you were seeking advice.
Yes, advice or an answer. Not for you to tell me that I'm not happy.
And as you can tell I did post that the situation was resolved and taken care of.
Thanks for your opinion though.
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Aug 23, 2012, 07:38 AM
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Originally Posted by M2125
Yes, advice or an answer. Not for you to tell me that im not happy.
And as you can tell I did post that the situation was resolved and taken care of.
Thanks for your opinion tho.
No need to get crabby at anyone. You never said you were happy once, nor did you say you were unhappy. We can only assume with the little information given.
Everyone here donates their time to help. You would do well to respect that.
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Aug 23, 2012, 07:42 AM
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Originally Posted by M2125
Yes, advice or an answer. Not for you to tell me that im not happy.
And as you can tell I did post that the situation was resolved and taken care of.
Thanks for your opinion tho.
Post on a public board and you get opinions.
I thought you were asking about a problem in your relationship.
Why did you post?
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Aug 23, 2012, 07:42 AM
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Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace
No need to get crabby at anyone. You never said you were happy once, nor did you say you were unhappy. We can only assume with the little information given.
Everyone here donates their time to help. You would do well to respect that.
I totally understand. Im not crabby, I just replied to you saying "that i didnt sound happy". And I do respect what everyone on here has to say. To my knowledge I haven't said anything to disrespect or be mean to anyone.
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Aug 23, 2012, 07:46 AM
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Originally Posted by M2125
I totally understand. Im not crabby, I just replied to you saying "that i didnt sound happy". And I do respect what everyone on here has to say. To my knowledge I havent said anything to disrespect or be mean to anyone.
Time to close it down but "Yes, advice or an answer. Not for you to tell me that im not happy" sounds confrontational, at least to me.
At any rate - this thread appears done. Apparently there never was a problem or a question and the boyfriend doesn't really get mad at the "smallest thing."
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Aug 23, 2012, 07:46 AM
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Originally Posted by M2125
Yes, advice or an answer. Not for you to tell me that im not happy.
And as you can tell I did post that the situation was resolved and taken care of.
Thanks for your opinion tho.
Whether you wanted it to or not. This post comes off as being rude. Especially since she never said nor implied that you were unhappy to begin with.
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Aug 23, 2012, 07:52 AM
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Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace
Whether you wanted it to or not. This post comes off as being rude. Especially since she never said nor implied that you were unhappy to begin with.
She did state it in a different post from a question by someone else.
And I'm sorry if I did come off to me rude in any way, it wasn't my intention.
Im done with this conversation
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