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    Aug 21, 2012, 05:31 PM
    I had sex for the first time and he barely fit but it didn't hurt
    I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 20. We had sec for the first time. I was a virgin but he wasn't. He barely fit into my vagina. I felt him going in and out, I started Cummings but didn't feel an orgasm. Needless to say he got an orgasm within 5 minutes I got nothing. Idk what to do.
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    Aug 21, 2012, 05:43 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jules354 View Post
    I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 20. We had sec for the first time. I was a virgin but he wasn't. He barely fit into my vagina. I felt him going in and out, I started Cummings but didn't feel an orgasm. Needless to say he got an orgasm within 5 minutes I got nothing. Idk what to do.


    What does he barely fit mean? He was too big? Too small? Something else?

    Was there much foreplay?

    You started to orgasm but then the feeling died?

    What types of birth control are you using?
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    Aug 21, 2012, 05:53 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jules354 View Post
    Idk what to do.
    Hello jules:

    Practice..

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    Aug 21, 2012, 07:05 PM
    How big how small
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    Aug 21, 2012, 07:12 PM
    Babies come out of there... if he could barely fit, he could have a promising career in porn.
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    Aug 21, 2012, 07:13 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Babies come out of there.......if he could barely fit, he could have a promising career in porn.
    I'm now picturing an 8 pound penis. Thanks a lot Smoothy! :)
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    Aug 21, 2012, 07:17 PM
    I certainly hope he was using protection... because first time or not you could EASILY get pregnant ANY time you have sex.
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    Aug 21, 2012, 07:53 PM
    What exactly are you asking us? Why it barley fit? Why you started "cummings" with no orgasm? Why he had an orgasm in five minutes?
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    Aug 21, 2012, 08:28 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Enigma1999 View Post
    what exactly are you asking us? Why it barley fit? Why you started "cummings" with no orgasm? Why he had an orgasm in five minutes?
    I think she's saying she found the experience a disappointment.

    Not surprising. She's young, he's young. She expects him to give her an orgasm, and thinks that sex will do the trick.

    Sounds like they both need to learn a few things.
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    Aug 21, 2012, 08:44 PM
    You will and can stretch just give it time, he may need to slow down some.

    How much foreplay was there, so that you would be lubricated enough, or did you use a oil or lube to help.

    Next many women will not ever organism during actual sex, this is done before an/or after intercourse.
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