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How much is too much?
Ladies I need help on this one!! Thank you!
I recently posted the question about whether I should tell my ex- girlfriend that I would like to get back together since I'm finally moving to her city about 10 min. away from her. Well, we had lunch today and I told her I wanted to start dating her again because I wanted to be with her and have a future. She was shocked! She said, " I had no idea you felt this way!" She then went on to say that she's enjoying her freedom right now and she's kind of dating someone. She was very quick to add that it's not serious, she doesn't even want a boyfriend right now. However, the last time we broke up she did this same thing. Told me she was dating someone, then dumped him about a week later to get back together with me. I think she does this to kind of wake me up! She's also wanted to learn to Salsa dance for a long time. She asked me at lunch, if when I moved I wanted to learn and be her dancing partner. This gets me thinking, if she's really seeing some dude, why wouldn't she want him to be her dancing partner?? Makes me wonder what she's really thinking. I don't want to push things. I told her how I felt, it's in her head, now I want to just keep talking like I never said anything. Hang out, go Salsa dancing, whatever, and let her make the ultimate decision. My question is, do you think she's really into this other guy? Why do girls say things like that if they are not being honest? Finally, how much contact is too much? I was thinking like texting or calling her about twice a week, what do you think?
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