[eldurojose]

I can’t forget my girlfriends past? Has she really changed? This is a very hard situation for me, I been with this girl for almost 2 years, long distance, she is in my native country and I live in the states. I go 3 times a year to see her and stay a couple months with her, I discover some escort page that had her pics, I confronted her about it she denied it and swore to me it wasn't her that she never did those things. Latter on other things popped up, more pics other pages, latter on she admitted everything she was a call girl and she explained to me that she had to do it she was desperate , she had no money and had to support her 83 year old father, she lives in a 3 world country. And there aren’t many job opportunities, especially if you don’t have an education,

She told me she got into modeling and that’s how it leads up to escorting. She also told me she stopped when she met her ex-boyfriend, she lasted with him for 6 months, and then she met me and left him for me, since she was the type of girl that had never felt any real love or had feelings for I guy before. she said she regrets it and wants to start a new life with me, and that she didn't tell me because she didn't want to lose me. That she wants a family and she will never cheat or hurt me ever.

Time past I broke up with her for a month because trust issues, she looked for me , told me that she has never felt love before, that this is the first time she loves a man, and that she can’t be without me, that she was always the type that never cared about men, she would only take advantage of them, and she didn’t care that I had no money , that we can make money together by working hard, that if we had to live under a cardboard house under a bridge that she would do it, because she loves me so much. We got back together, and it’s so hard to forget about her past, we always have bad fights because of this,

It’s been almost 2 years now, now she is pregnant and things look even harder now, what should I do. No matter what I will be there for that baby, but I don't know if I can make this work anymore, do you think a girl can really change like that, and also should I trust her if she lied to me once that it wasn't her on those web pages?

[talaniman]

HARSHNESS WARNING


You forgave her for lying and stayed and got her pregnant so I'm not buying you can't get over her past. Things got complicated and you are ready to bail like a spineless jelly fish.

Take an honest look at yourself, and own your part in this and make a man decision. Yeah she lied from shame, but you stayed any way, and must have been lying to her about your love!

I hope I am wrong, and misjudged you unfairly. I think you at least owe her the benefit of a doubt, and see her through her pregnancy.