[Jessica9292]

I'm 15 and so is my friend. I'm really confused. My friend keeps dating then breaking up with her ex. They fight over stupid things. I really like her ex too. He's sweet and funny. Plus, we were talking one night and he asked me who I liked so I had him guess. I finally told him I liked him and then he told me he liked me too. I don't know if he was just messing with me though. I doubt it.

But, anyway, the next day I asked my friend if she'd be mad if I told him I liked him (even though I already did) She sent me a text saying ' You like him?? How? U always call him a jerk' I did say that, but only so she wouldn't know. So I texted her back saying ' I only said that so you wouldn't know I liked him' she didn't reply. So I went on Facebook and asked her if she was mad and she didn't reply. So then I asked on skype and she didn't reply. I think she's really mad.

But then a week after I found out she got back together with him. I think she just did that to be mean though. She really isn't a mean person. This happened before except it was switched around. She liked my ex.

Anyway, a little while ago he called me. I couldn't answer though because I didn't have my webcam. Me and him became friends and I really want to be more than friends. I don't know if I should try to talk it out with her (which might take months) or just keep talking to him and see where it goes. I really like him but I also don't want anything to happen to my friendship with her. Please help!!

[talaniman]

Leave him alone and stop letting him go behind his girls back talking to you. You should have asked what's up with him and his girl, who is supposed to be YOUR friend, but you have lied to her already.

Look I understand attractions to others but that doesn't mean you have to act inappropriately because of them.