[quiteme]

My husband doesn't trust me. I know he loves me a lot. He does everything for me. But he doesn't trust me. Its been over a year we are married but I have never felt the trust he has for me,not a single day. I share every little things with him. Even shared all about my past,about exes,physical relation,crushes on,etc. Never lied. Never hide.

When we had arguments,discussion,no matter how rude I act,he always steps ahead to make me smile. But always because he has no trust on me,he acts differently even in small matters like I gave money to my brother and told him afterwards why I did'nt beforehand and so on. Now I am fed up. I know after couple of days everything comes to normal but it will repeat again as it has been. If problem was other than trust,I would have done something. But no trust means not good in a relationship and it should come naturally which I can't expect from my husband.

I am now pregnant with his child. But still I want to separate with him. I can't stand with a person who points out on my honesty and innocence. I will live without him nomatter how much I need him. I want to know what you all think of it. Please share. Am I doing right?

[Hello1996]

Well , Somethimes you have to think of the kid... All kids need a father if you were to do it , do it now. If you do while the kid is older ,he might go crazy. My parents separated when I was old enough and my brain hurts and I trust no one. Maybe you should talk to him and ask him why he doesn't trust you ? Maybe it will help but id\f you know either way your going to separate with him, its better to do it now (y) Maybe he had something happen to him or his parents that makes him not trust you :/