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    lulu 98 Posts: 20, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 2, 2012, 02:19 AM
    What should I do with my cousin ?
    Hello ,

    I have a cousin and she graduated this year and I'm in grade 9 . I always loved her but she always ignored me. But I never stopped trying to be close with her because I don't have a sister and she doesn't too so that's why I want to be like sisters with her. I always cared about her and cried when she cried. Got mad when she did. Got happy when she is. But still the same ignoring me. So I decided to do the same . I only say to her hii when ever I see her.

    A lot of you will say that because she is older than me and all of that but she has friends from 10th grade!

    So do you think I made the right decision by ignoring her ? Or not ?
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    Aug 2, 2012, 05:30 AM
    I think you should tell her how you feel.
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    Aug 2, 2012, 05:37 AM
    Thanks but I'm actually scared because she has a tough attitude
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    Aug 2, 2012, 05:39 AM
    Why make someone a priority in your life, when you're only an option in theirs. Where do you draw the line and say enough is enough and stop trying to please those who are not interested in being please by you. Only being yourself will you find those who truly care and share the same compassion for friendship as you.
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    Aug 2, 2012, 09:46 AM
    I guess so :\
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    Aug 2, 2012, 09:53 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by lulu 98 View Post
    i guess so :\
    You will have much better relationships with the friends that like you for you. Be yourself, and you will find those friends much easier.
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    Aug 2, 2012, 09:58 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace View Post
    You will have much better relationships with the friends that like you for you. Be yourself, and you will find those friends much easier.
    Thank you :) I'll be myself and if she doesn't like it then I don't care :D
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    Aug 2, 2012, 09:59 AM
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    thank you :) i'll be myself and if she doesn't like it then i don't care :D
    That's the spirit! With that kind of mentality, no one can bring you down.
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    Aug 2, 2012, 10:02 AM
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