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    Jul 24, 2012, 02:04 PM
    Boyfriend's friend lives with us
    My boyfriends friend was suppose to move in for a short time before continuing on to another state. Within the first 6 months he didn't have a job, at all. I clean the house, take out the kitchen trash, and do all the yard work as my boyfriend works 12-15 hour shifts - 6 days a week. My boyfriend talked to his buddy about moving out Aug. 1st. And his buddy is suppose to move out in 7 days. However, there are no boxes, no inclination that he is moving. I am going CRAZY cleaning up after this guy not to mention other tid-bits that have made this last (7days to go) NINE MONTHS frustrating! I feel like a nag to my boyfriend.

    Should I just move out?
    Then I start thinking.. why should I give up my relationship because I don't want to be this guys maid! SNAP! Its making me crazy! Any advise on how to handle this would be appreciated!
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    Jul 24, 2012, 02:18 PM
    Wait till Aug 1st, if he doesn't move on, talk to your boyfriend about it, if he does not take your feelings on this issue as a real concern, maybe it is time to move on, his priorities are elsewhere.
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    Jul 24, 2012, 02:49 PM
    I would tell boyfriend, that if he is not out by the date you are out and do it. I bet once you are gone, eh will get friend gone much faster.
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    Jul 24, 2012, 03:49 PM
    You need to take your boyfriend and his friend to see Ted. Keep making eye contact with the friend throughout the movie.

    It's a creative way to get the message across.

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