[ilovemyson1]

I met this guy a few months ago and we were both single. At first we talked to each other all the time then my father passed away and I stopped talking to him as I was going through a lot. He started texting and calling me again a couple weeks ago. He recently started dating a girl about a month ago and was completely honest with me about it. She lives an hour n a half away he said to me that she's cool but just someone to be with till he found someone better. We hung out and one thing lead to another needless to say we have slept together a few times. I feel bad because I know he has a girlfriend but there's something about it that doesn't feel bad. We still talk non stop all day and we both have feelings for each other... I don't know what to do... help

[talaniman]

You can date and have sex with whomever you want and so can he but if she is someone to just be with, its possible he feeds you that line, and you are someone to have sex with.

No telling what's the real truth here, but for sure why would you take his word for anything, as you may just be helping him cheat?

I wonder if he is as honest with her, as you think he is with you, is the question. Seems you would have facts before you gave some one your body.

Just saying.

[durpstick]

Tread carefuly in this situation. He might be telling the truth, and the fact he has only been dating her for such a small amount of time before he started talking to you again plays in favor to his story. But on the same coin the fact that he lies to her should be a red flag for you. My advice is to see where it goes for now, pay attention to what he says and look for things that don't match up. He should also break up with his girlfriend, immidetly, if he doesn't you can be sure your getting played. The heart wants what the heart wants, but protect it because it can hurt you.