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    Mar 4, 2007, 12:38 AM
    Dwelling on the past
    Hi everyone well I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and we are like best friends. Except for one issue when we first started dating I felt the need to lie to him and tell him I had sex previously, I made the story up about a few guys and I think I did it becases I thought at the time he was so hot and I needed to seem like I was wanted and liked by others, I know it was so dumb it didn't make me look liked or respected, anyway now I confesed to him that I lied and he was my first. The problem is everyday he yells at me calls me names and insults me about the issue. Calling me a slut and that he feels sorry for me because I was probably rejected by them that's why I made the story up, I understand he is hurt by my lie but I am sorry and he won't understand that or stop dwelling on the past, I did other sexual things with them but this was like 5 6 years ago and he still bring it up all the time, he doesn't realize he is hurting myself confidence and also making me feel worthless. He doesn't seem to care about my feelings... what should I do please give me your adive on the situation should you still be mad what should be do?
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    Mar 4, 2007, 09:24 AM
    He should not be mad at something you did 5 or 6 years ago. First of all you should not have lied to him. Are you two together.
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    Mar 4, 2007, 09:25 AM
    You should not have lied. He should not still be mad at you. Are you two dating?

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