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Jul 19, 2012, 02:38 PM
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Help , Help Confused about my unique relationship with my ex.. I need advice help!):
So me and my girl broke up April 24 and we kind of been up and down since we did not brreak up because either of us cheated but because I was to jealous.. well after the break up I thought oh shell get back with me and she was until she heard a few rumours which she believed... Anyway she went to my high school graduation and not only that we would see each other for at least once a week.. we made out and she would tell me she missed me... but she can't take me back so it was weird as some days would go by we would be like strangers up until last week where we started having conversations and we talked Thursday night and I told her I had something for her and she accepted it gladly the next day which was Friday I called her early in the morning and asked her to go have lunch with me and she agrreed.. so I basically gave her a note book full of all of our memories since we been together and she told me after she read it she was going to call me but she never did so I eventually texted her asking what she was thinking and for about two days she wouldn't give me an answer she would just tell me "oh ill text you later " or " yah well talk about it on the phone.. so I finally asked her so your not telling me what your thinking I need to know and she told me oh I lost feelings for you... But that Friday that we grabbed lunch it looked like she still liked me she hugged me tight and I kissed her on her forehead... and I thought oh may be she will give me another chance... But like I said she told me I lost feelings for you which I don't believe... so for now I'm just going to stop contacting her.. for the last two months I've been trying and trying to get back with her at points it seems like a yah and at others it just like we are strangers.. But I love her ): so what should I doo.. . Yahh the lunch we had just happened Friday the 13 2012 July so its all recent we haven't been together for about three months I'm 18 she's 16 but we beeen together since she was 14 & I was 16... like I said we broke up because I was too jealous but rumours seemed to make things worse.. she seems confused to me.. what should I do the way I see it now seems like a goodtime to stop contacting her and if she really was playing about losing feelings for me shell soon contact me right I mean she's only 16 how fast can she get over me.. we been together for a couple years.. you think she just wants me to keep chasing her??
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Welbeing Expert
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Jul 19, 2012, 03:29 PM
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Too many games here... If a person has to chase another, (as much as you) then it wasn't meant to be.
Makes sense though... she is only 16.
Perhaps when you two are older, something good may happen.
For now though... way too many games.
Let her be.
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Dating & Teen Expert
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Jul 19, 2012, 04:06 PM
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She says she has lost feeling for you. Believe it.
She has been dating you since she was 14. Maybe she wants to see what it is like to be unattached. 14 is too young to be attached to someone.
Move on.
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New Member
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Jul 19, 2012, 09:38 PM
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Should I expect a call from her??
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Welbeing Expert
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Jul 19, 2012, 09:42 PM
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Don't expect from her. Don't wait for her.
Move on.
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Jul 19, 2012, 09:42 PM
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Do you guys think if I go no contact she might freak out??
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Jul 19, 2012, 09:45 PM
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Why do you think she even went out with me last week?? your opinion please?
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Welbeing Expert
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Jul 19, 2012, 09:46 PM
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Seriously! Just let it be.
Blade runner is on HBO right now! Go watch it. Just do something else. Anything else, and stop obsessing over her and this situation.
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Dating & Teen Expert
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Jul 19, 2012, 11:57 PM
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You asked her to go to lunch and she went, she still did not take you back. It meant nothing.
Leave her alone, she wants her freedom. Move on.
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