[cheyennegomez]

Iam 17 and was in a relationship with my ex for 8 months..
We had a very loving, honest, and serious relationship
For the last month he started getting very busy and neglecting me and not making any time for me.
After that month I broke up with him...
I still loved him very much and wanted to work things out and he did also...
But I messed up by constantly arguing with him...
He then said that he did not want a relationship with me or any other girl and that he wasn't meant for relationships...
I kept pushing for him to change his mind but it pushed him further away from me and now we don't speak and when we do it is always an argument...
I keep telling myself to move on and but I feel I messed up the whole thing..
Also i.e. recently told me in an argument " I had to accept that you moved on so stay with your decision" when he claimed he had moved on before this and deleted our pictures and everything we had
Should I be patient and see if he comes around
Or move on

[braindamage]

You know at this age being in a committed and full relationship is hard since you guys are so young and experiencing so much in life. With time he will grow to understand things with himself and things in general especially in relationships.So don't ever blame yourself for anything that happened between you two. It seems as if you guys really cared for each other and that's really important. You can never forget your first love. But if you love something or someone you must let them go and if its rightfully yours they will come back. Thus, you are only 17 your life will move on itself and you have so much time to meet the right person. Just move on girl.

[cheyennegomez]

Thank you so much
Its been almost 2 months since thebreak up
And I still can't find a way to get over it all
Its so weird for me to be feeling this way especially with
How long it has already been..
He is 2 years older than me
And the I had mentioned earlier makes me paranoid... :(