[unimush43]

I turned 13 last month. The guy I like turned 18 yesterday. He’s my brother's friend and he goes to my church. His smile is devilish and contagious. He’s honestly one of the nicest guys I’ve ever met. He plays the drums and the guitar. He tall and has a 6 pack. If I do say so myself, he's hot. I’ve known him for 1 yr. and 4 months. I’ve liked him for about a year now. I didn't even tell my closest friend until last week because I was hoping I’d get over him.

I know it would and should never happen now because 1. He’s too old for me now and 2. I’m not allowed to date until I’m sixteen.
One of the only reasons I haven't given up liking him is because my bff's parents are 4 yrs. And 11 months apart and are happily married. But let's say I still liked him in 5 years, would a relationship between an 18 yr. old and 23 yr. old frighten you? And say we were dating and got married, would it be weird for a 22 yr. old and 27 yr. old to be married?

PS he knows me and says hi to me but he only sees me as his friend's baby sister, which is how it should be. I don’t want you thinking he's some weird pedo

Tell me want you think.

[odinn7]

You already asked this once before and got answers to it. Why start a new thread? Are you hoping for different answers?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...uy-675093.html

[J_9]

It's not necessary to create 2 accounts to ask the same question. Which account would you like to keep?

[louise1928]

I think wait till your older if you still like him then yeah, it would be okay but an 18 year old and 13 year old no, especially with the sexual point of view. Go back to the boys your own age.