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    missqueenb Posts: 10, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 25, 2004, 07:30 PM
    What is the deal?
    Hey guys! Girls you can join in too!!

    Why is it that men are so contradicting! This guy I am seeing(I guess) says that he wasn't looking for anything but you know a little... nookie( oh by the way I am 25yrs old, he's 24) but, he goes through the ceiling if another guy mentions that he thinks I am sexy, or some other crass remark. Anyway, I asked him one night if I am wasting my feelings on him, but he never gave a solid "YES" or "NO"... yes, he and I had sex quickly... and he stated that its hard for him to start a relationship when we started wrong. Hmmm maybe we should start over, since it is so evident that he likes me... its in his eyes, written on his face, and displayed in his actions,daily. The problem is, he believes that I'm going to dog him. This I wouldn't do because I care greatly for him. But anyway, why is it that guys say" friends with benifits" when they really mean" i want to be with you?"... argh!! So confusing! But while he makes up his mind, I'll chill out and see where things can go... miss qb
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    CroCivic91 Posts: 729, Reputation: 23
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    Dec 26, 2004, 07:28 AM
    Oi!

    He was maybe hurt in the past, now he's acting defensive, scared of getting hurt again. Try and show him (a bit more, if needed) that you're not planning on hurting him, that you do truly care for him.

    Actions talk better than words. Besides, men are not good with words, so don't try explaining it - show it :)

    It's nice when people like each other...

    Take care,

    Kresho

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