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    Jul 4, 2012, 01:00 PM
    My girlfriend brings up the past
    My girlfriend keeps bring up the past... I'll give you the short version... I have a friend and I have known her for 5 yrs so she's my best friend and I have a girlfriend been with her for a yr and she doesn't like my friend. My friend and I talk about everything now once when I was with my girlfriend my friend text me asking me a question about sex which my girlfriend saw my text and got upset about. Now at the time I didn't think anything of it because its how we talk to each other. Then my girlfriend talked me about it and at the time I didn't see anything wrong with it but now I do. Then there was another time my friend sent me a message on.fb and my everyone on my page seen what my friend put and then she thought I was cheating on her with my friend because of what her family and friends said I have told my girlfriend that I love her all the time and I was going to ask her to marry me once but she letting the fact that I have a friend that is a girl get to her and keeps bring up what my friend sais to me. Wish leaves us in an argument all the time. ( my friend is engaged ). I don't know what to do anymore help
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    Jul 4, 2012, 01:19 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by mojo246 View Post
    My girlfriend keeps bring up the past..... I'll give you the short version.... I have a friend and i have known her for 5 yrs so shes my best friend and i have a girlfriend been with her for a yr and she doesn't like my friend. My friend and i talk about everything now once when i was with my gf my friend text me asking me a question about sex which my gf saw my text and got upset about. Now at the time i didnt think anything of it because its how we talk to each other. Then my gf talked me about it and at the time i didnt see anything wrong with it but now i do. Then there was another time my friend sent me a message on.fb and my everyone on my page seen what my friend put and then she thought i was cheating on her with my friend because of what her family and friends said i have told my gf that i love her all the time and i was going to ask her to marry me once but she letting the fact that i have a friend that is a girl get to her and keeps bring up what my friend sais to me. Wish leaves us in an argument all the time. ( my friend is engaged ). I don't know what to do anymore help
    And yet you think there is a future with someone that doesn't know when to let go of the past.

    This is her nature.. she might be like this her entire life... how long are you willing to put up with it when there are so many other people out there that aren't like this?

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