[Nailamirza]

Asalam o alikum , my mother is brain stroke patient , paralyzed completely bedridden for 5 years now , I have 2 brothers , who recently got married and I am the only daughter ! Being the only daughter I am taking compelte nursing care of my mother ! With my brothers helping in financial and emotional suport alhumdulila . My question is now after my brothers marriage , everyone is forcing me to get married , expecting my sister in laws to take care of my mother . (
Which they don't do ) I am 25 years old , and I want to know what should I do in this situation? Get married but my
Mother will not be looked after aur being a daughter , keep takeing care of her till she recovers? Kindly reply ! Thank you

[sue_anna]

Can't you get married and take your mother with you? If I was in your situation, I'd rather talk to the person that I will get married and convince him that my mother should stay with us as I am the best person who could take care of her. Today my mother, tomorrow his mother you know... He should understand. If not, sorry but then he is not the right person to get married. Because even in Islam, God wants you to honour your mother! Do that and be a responsible child and honour your mother in the way that you can.