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Tyga-Ty · Jul 1, 2012, 06:50 PM

So my boyfriend just dumped me Because he thought that I said he was cheating on me and we got into a agurment, and This is the 7th time going out with him and I was scared of going back out with him because I didn't want to get hurt again, and now we were Bestfriedns and now I don't know if he even wants to be Friends anymore help!

smoothy · Jul 1, 2012, 07:02 PM

Originally Posted by Tyga-Ty

So my boyfriend just dumped me Because he thought that I said he was cheating on me and we got into a agurment, and This is the 7th time going out with him and I was scared of going back out with him because I didnt want to get hurt again, and now we were Bestfriedns and now I don't know if he even wants to be Friends anymore help!

You've been out a whopping 7 times? Damn your practically married... I'm kidding.

So walk away... if you've managed to make it this far without having done that before... well its time to start. That's how it works. Its rarely easy, but always necessary.

EnigmaMCMLXIV · Jul 2, 2012, 01:36 PM

Hmmmmmm you were dating this guy, who thought you said to him he was cheating in an argument. Number 1 tip you don't argue with a guy only after 7 dates. This is dating not a relationship. Why do you want to be best friends with this guy after the dating ended? It is hard to be friends with trust issues. It's harder to be in a relationship with trust issues. So why are you trying?

rocketman11 · Jul 2, 2012, 01:49 PM

1) Do not be friends.
2) Do not have any contact with him at all.
3) Forget about him, move on and find someone who isn't insecure, and doesn't have trust issues.

Homegirl 50 · Jul 2, 2012, 02:03 PM

So don't be friends anymore. It does not seem like he cares one way or the other anyway.
You've only been on 7 dates, this should be really simple.

andrewjg · Jul 2, 2012, 02:04 PM

Hey Tyga-Ty,

Got to agree with the rest of the guys on this one,

Stop contact.
Delete him on Facebook.
Don't be friends (doesnt work!(trust me)).
Treat yourself- buy a new pair of shoes :D
Move on!
Smile- be happy :D
Life is too short to dwell on things(trust me on that too!)

Andy

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Tyga-Ty · Jul 2, 2012, 03:21 PM

I know were you guys are coming from but I'm a teen ^_______^ and me and this guys are Really good friends! And its just hard and that's pretty much what my friends said!

smoothy · Jul 2, 2012, 03:35 PM

Being a teen isn't an excuse for doing dumb things... more than once anyway. And not even that much most cases.

The reality is the same 15 or 55.

Tyga-Ty · Jul 2, 2012, 03:58 PM

I'm not so upset that we broke up Well I am but I'm more upset because I would never let a relationship get in the way of a fruendship and He told me that it was best for the both of us to Not Date :/

Homegirl 50 · Jul 2, 2012, 04:10 PM

Well you don't date, and if he acts like he does not want to be your friend, you back off. There is really nothing else to do but that.

smoothy · Jul 2, 2012, 04:14 PM

You are going to find... taking the next step up from friendship many times... (most times in fact) is a one way path... and actually going back is a very rare accomplishment few people can do.

durpstick · Jul 2, 2012, 11:44 PM

Originally Posted by rocketman11

1) Do not be friends.
2) Do not have any contact with him at all.
3) Forget about him, move on and find someone who isn't insecure, and doesn't have trust issues.

Could not have said it better myself