[lexheartsyou]

I met this guy through some mutual friends and we hit it off automatically. We fell in love and he was my dream guy. We both had the same life goals and dates for a while. He told his parents I was "the one" and everyone could just tell by the way he would look at me. Around February he started acting weird. He went from texting me constantly and wanting to see me every second to becoming distant. I talked to his mother and she told me he has a lot of pressure on him, he wasn't doing well in college and they told him if he didn't bring up his grades they would stop paying for college, he ran out of money so he couldn't drive to see me as much, his parents were on his case about everything and on top of that he doesn't deal with stress well. She told me to give him a few weeks and he never changed back. He dated this girl in high school for a year and a half and when he broke up with her, he was single for a year before he met me. I didn't even know she existed until she started stalking both of us. She would always try to break us up and his family hated her. He told me how much he could not stand her and how psycho she is and I could see. I never messaged her back; I was taught to be the bigger person. During spring break she messaged me once again and said he cheated on me with her, he denied it but I wasn't sure who to believe since he has been acting so weird. He talked to her and she messaged me again a couple days later saying she lied and he didn't cheat but I still could not trust him. I broke up with him a few weeks after that but was devastated. He wasn't the same guy he used to be and I still do not know why. He would tweet about me and how he loved me and even put Facebook videos of how he was broken but he was too stubborn to text me. His ex still would not leave him alone and if anything got worse. She would tweet about me to him and he would get so mad and cuss her out on twitter. He deleted his Facebook and twitter and it turns out he went back with her after so long of being apart. I don't know if it is loneliness or what but I talked to him when they got back together and he said he doesn't want her, he misses me and loves me still and he thought I moved on but he is still with her. I'm not sure if he is scared to get his heartbroken again that's why he went back to her is because he finally gave in and he is lonely or what but he still wears the promise ring I gave him on his marriage hand. Help? Opinions please? I am so confused and I don't know what to think. His girlfriend still stalks me via twitter and Facebook and even has her friends try to add me all the time! I know she is still worried about me so I don't know if he brings me up a lot when they hang out.

[JudyKayTee]

I don't think he knows what he wants and I think he is playing two women against each other.

She's a fool if he's dating her with your ring on his finger.'

I'd get rid of her fast by blocking her in all possible ways and reporting any threatening or harassing behavior to the Police.

I'd personally be grateful to be out of the stress.