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shoka · Jun 28, 2012, 03:01 PM

Ok so I and this girl we are together for like three years now and suddenly she said that she wants to move on and she doesn't like me anymore and that she doesn't want any contact with me and as far as I know her she is pissed at me fr many reasons for many fights for being very needy and possesive
She says she doesn't feel anythng for me and she wants to get rid of me but I can't let her go she is the one I have always thought to be with please suggestions?

smoothy · Jun 28, 2012, 04:20 PM

Originally Posted by shoka

Ok so i and this girl we are together for like three years now and suddenly she said that she wants to move on and she doesnt like me anymore and that she doesnt want any contact with me and as far as i know her she is pissed at me fr many reasons for many fights for being very needy and possesive
she says she doesnt feel anythng for me and she wants to get rid of me but i can't let her go she is the one i have always thought to b with please suggestions??

There are no suggestions other than forget her and move on. There is NOTHING else you can do... she was clear in her thoughts... and expressed them.

Unless you want to be charge with stalking... and get a reputation as "THAT GUY" to stay away from.

Doesn't matter why... but she has every right to walk away and legally you have to respect it.

Sorry, but no way am I going to sugar coat it and make you think anything else. Think about that one really obnoxious female you hated at some point in your life that liked you.

Should YOU have had to go with her because that's what SHE wanted? The answer is no just like here and for the same reasons. Its 50/50 and if one person says NO, get away... you have to honor it.

That's life... its hard, but everyone has to learn to cope with it.

shoka · Jun 28, 2012, 05:44 PM

Wait listen firstly we were really close friends and we were perfect look she has a guilt I don't want to tell here she couldn't overcome it I gave her time I said OK take your time listen I have analysed everythng that went wrong I know I can make it up bt I just don't know how should I approach her?

shoka · Jun 28, 2012, 05:53 PM

And let me make it clear she says she is frustated she is sick of everything she needs to be alone bt yeah she wishes that everythng gets back to what it was and she tried she couldn't help it?
And do you thnk that possibly talking to other guys would let her forget me?

smoothy · Jun 28, 2012, 05:55 PM

None of that matters one single bit... she said get lost... you have to get lost.

There is nothing else you can say that changes that one single bit. She doesn't have to listen to you or even justify it to anyone.

What she can do if you don't leave her alone, is call the police... then things will get really bad for you really fast from there.

You don't have to like it, you don't have to agree with it... but you have to do it.

Nobody says its going to be pleasant or easy... but unless you want to spend time in jail with other unpleasant people you don't want to be near... its something you will have to do.

What was means nothing... what is right now.. from HER viewpoint is what matters. And she left no doubt as to what that was... don't respect her wishes and what will be is going to be something far less pleasant. And result in the very sudden and very serious restriction of your freedom to a small cell for a number of years.

Everything that was in the past.. is the past, its gone forever... whats now is she doesn't want you near her. You have no choice but accept it.

shoka · Jun 29, 2012, 02:21 AM

I just want my girl back she is pissed at me and she doesn't want to talk to me but how can it be that after being in love for so many years madly she says I am sick of you I am ready to change for her and I will what should I do?

Curlyben · Jun 29, 2012, 02:27 AM

You need to Back Off and give her space.
She clearly doesn't what to be with you at present and needs time.
Of course if you want to be labelled as a stalker, as it seems from your other posts, then pursue her mercilessly. Either way you WILL fail.

shoka · Jun 29, 2012, 02:37 AM

Ok I am giving her time look I am very good at heart and its just I tried to move on bt I couldn't and I am madly in love with her since the first day I agree I had been negligent at times bt I am going to change.
We r n a break you thnk I should approach her or wait for her to text me?