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    Jun 28, 2012, 05:27 AM
    Confused please help?
    I have been with my boyfriend almost 5 years.He was married for 7 years before and I was married 22 years.We are both in our 40's.anyway times have been hard I lost my job 2 years ago.He was working day shift and would sometimes come home a little late.there was a few times he didn't come home at all.So just about 2 months ago he went on overnight shift.He is late every day at least 2 times a week he don't come home at all.He don't answer my calls or my text.He say's he is out being the life of the party.I have no friends to hang out with. So I'm home all the time.taking care of the house.He don't want to take me out.He is in a bad mood when my kids come over.But he says he loves me and to hold on that he is going to strighten up.I just don't know what to do.He lies to me a lot I don't want to leave him but I feel he is not respecting me.Is he cheating or just hanging with his buddies.please help...
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    Jun 28, 2012, 12:39 PM
    I would not put up with living with a man who comes home only when he wants to. I don't know if he is cheating but he is certainly disrespecting you. He lies to you a lot, what is there to stay for?
    How low does he have to go before you say "enough"?
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    Jun 29, 2012, 12:54 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    I would not put up with living with a man who comes home only when he wants to. I don't know if he is cheating but he is certainly disrespecting you. He lies to you a lot, what is there to stay for?
    How low does he have to go before you say "enough"?
    Well thank you for your help.It's just I have few places to go. So I'm trying to see my options and as for him going low I think he is already there.
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    Jun 29, 2012, 04:09 PM
    Well leave as soon as you can. Don't put up with this any longer.
    I wish you well.
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