[lillahimed]

I have been best friends with my boyfriend for 2 years and have been dating him for a few months. I also used to have feelings for a friend of mine, but I didn't feel right about dating him because my best friend had a crush on him. Now I have a boyfriend and I have begun talking to this other guy again. My friend no longer likes him and I'm talking and hanging out with him a lot and it is bringing up old feelings. I'm extremely confused because I love my boyfriend very much. The worst part is that my boyfriend works a lot and I'm spending more time with the other man. Please help me I want to remain friends with the other guy, but I'm afraid I might do something when I'm tired or drunk.

[Homegirl 50]

Stop hanging around with him and don't get drunk with him.
If you have a boyfriend and you love him why are you hanging out with this other guy?
Why don't you just break up with your boyfriend, you are not doing right by him anyway and be free to see who you want to see.

[fairytail]

this isn't fair to your boyfriend.will u forgive him or still be with him if he did something like this to you behind your back? I am sure u won't... dont be guided by your past or maybe lust.u already know that u love your boyfriend a lot and don't want to lose him... so what's the confusion?
don't hang around with the other guy and spend sometime like a full weekend with your boyfriend and call him when the thoughts of the other guy starts to haunt you... be strong and stand for what u value... even u know that u can't have them both... be patient and trust yourself.