[Miawallace27]

A few weeks ago I was out of town and ended up meeting a man. We spent some time together, and slept together both nights I was there.

When I got back I didn’t expect anything from him because I figured it was just a one time thing. But since then he has constantly texted me. He has told me it isn’t just sex for him, but hasn’t really said he likes me straight out. He says sweet things to me, but never compliments me or says he likes me. He also hasn’t made any extra steps to further the relationship. It is a long distance thing and we haven’t seen each other since.

What’s the deal? Should I ask him? Or make a move?

[mearbhall]

Well if he's said that "it isn't just sex for him" and he's been in constant contact with you and saying sweet things despite the distance, it seems he certainly does like you, otherwise why would he bother?

[talaniman]

He sure is working hard for a one time thing so talk to the guy, or leave it alone if you aren't interested.

No risk, no reward, but he is a stranger to be cautious of. You impressed him before, but you don't have to get married next week. What do you want to do??