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    Jun 23, 2012, 01:11 AM
    Best friend problems
    I have best friend over the past few years until now, but the problem is she's hiding something from me. I want to ask her but... Maybe that'll make me snoopy or cross the line in her personal life. We still bond each other tighter that ever but that thing she's hiding from me makes me feel unease especially when I got to sleep. Sometimes I think that she's hiding it because it might hurt me. I can take it even how hard it is and get a li'l depress for awhile, I can still take it. I tried to move on with the fact that she's hiding something from me, the thing is it keeps coming back when ever I see her and it makes me angry and sad inside.

    Can someone please help me?
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    Jun 23, 2012, 01:40 AM
    I've been in your place before. My best friend of four years was hiding that she had feelings for me when I started dating my current girlfriend. Over the next two months, it kept eating at her and she started acting weird and different and treated me wrong plenty of times. She eventually confessed that she developed feelings for me and thought it would be best to go our separate ways. So needless to say, I was very depressed. You need to confront her and ask her about it. If you two are that close, it shouldn't be too hard to have a serious talk with her and tell her that you are her best friend and you know when something is wrong with her even if she tries to hide it.
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    Jun 23, 2012, 03:21 AM
    How do you know she's hiding something from you without some idea of what it's about?
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    Jun 23, 2012, 06:51 AM
    How do you know she is hiding something from you?
    If it is something she really wants you to know she will tell you, until then, it's not your business.
    What makes you so nervous you can't sleep? Sounds to me like you might be hiding something you maybe need to tell her.
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    Jun 23, 2012, 09:43 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by joypulv View Post
    How do you know she's hiding something from you without some idea of what it's about?
    I'm just guessin' but I think she has a crush on someone and I suspect that someone has a crush on her. It usually happens after class she kind of get's quiet when that someone kind of flirts with her or something, until I talk to her. And one time we were eating lunch all of the sudden she tells the prettiest girl in class that she was beautiful, of course she was beautiful! But why would she tell her that in a random time. It's OK with me but the thing is she doesn't tell me if she has a crush on that someone and I really feel bad when she doesn't trust me.. My guts tells me that she has a crush on him. And I sometimes, I really get pumped when my brain tells me to "ASK HER ALREADY". I really hate being snoopy to my best friend but I don't know how to act maturely about it.
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    Jun 24, 2012, 07:53 AM
    You are being snoopy, maybe that is why she has not told you. Maybe it's none of your business
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    Jun 25, 2012, 04:18 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    You are being snoopy, maybe that is why she has not told you. Maybe it's none of your business
    Well.. I'm not snoopy anymore... I let go of it... Thanks for the advise, I'm cool now. But I guess she never notices me when I get snoopy.. I just need to trust her on this one.
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    Jun 25, 2012, 07:17 AM
    Why do you feel she has to tell you everything?
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    Jun 26, 2012, 03:19 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Why do you feel she has to tell you everything?
    I'm not saying neither am I feeling that she has to tell me everything. It's just about that thing. But I'm over with it already.

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