[Mellinutmeg]

Hi, my boyfriend says he loves me but he does not make an effort to meet me just me and him... his best mate says he is just not good with girls, but i don't know what to think. I keep on thinking about ending it with him, but i think i would regret it after cos i do really like him!!:( can people please give me sum ideas on how i could make this relationship work.

[ballengerb1]

Do you really like him as he is? Lots of relationships start with reservations and people think they can change the person later on in the relationship. That is not going to happen, people are who they are and aren't going to change without a soul shaking event. Can you can accept him as is? If not walk away now, it will hurt more later.

[RD07]

How log have you being going out with him? If you haven't been seeing him very long, but you like him, then give it time. If you have been going out for a while then perhaps you should leave him. Either way, you should talk about it with him first, not his friend.