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    Yakira Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 19, 2012, 10:25 AM
    I don't love him
    Hi, I'm really confused. Me and my boyfriend met 3 weeks before we became boyfriend and girlfriend and now we've been together for about two months. He seemed so nice at the beginning, but little by little I begun finding things about him that I don't like.
    While new couples normally is full of love and hang together constantly, Me and my boyfriend don't, because I don't feel like it. Recently I've felt like there's other things I'd rather do, than hanging with him. Still, I do meet him a couple of days of the week.
    Of course there's things I like about him as well and we have so much in common it's crazy! I just can't understand why I'm so doubtful about our relationship, and how I feel that I don't love him, yet he has told me that he loves me. Did the relationship happen too quickly? I don't know if we should be together at all. What should I do?
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    Jun 19, 2012, 12:54 PM
    Either break up with him or continue to casually date and see if your feelings change.

    He might love you, he might have just said he does (sometimes people rush into it). Either way, if you don't love him, don't feel bad. Love isn't instant, it takes work and sometimes it never happens.
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    Jun 19, 2012, 02:22 PM
    2 months into a relationship maybe the thrill is gone. It happens. Don't string him along though. Nothing wrong with breaking up if you're just not feeling the person.
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    Jun 19, 2012, 02:47 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Yakira View Post
    I don't know if we should be together at all. What should I do?
    It's not going to get any better, so, just break up with him and tell him why.
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    Jun 19, 2012, 02:49 PM
    In two months you don't normally "love" them, you like them and are still finding out things about them.

    But this is also the time we decide if we want to keep dating them or not.

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