[ForeverYoung16]

So I'm 16 and I'm having some problems of my own , now that I'm growing up. I always used to depend ob my mom for theses kind of questions and things, but right now we don't have a good relationship. Also me and my (ex)boyfriend are going.through things. We broke up about two months ago. Because of annoying him and talking about the same subject anyway long story short I've been with this.kid for a year and five months we've had sex. But he's been my only one. This kid is like a Guy that every girl wants! I'm not perfect I'm thick with a butt and a pretty face. He's tall skinny and handsome. Anyway those two month we been apart I messed with three guys. And he found out about it and started flipping out& around two weeks ago , I keep talking to him to him yo try to fix things back to what we had. But he says "there's no way, I just want to be friends now" I can't be friends with a boy I love so much and.I've known for so long and shared so many things my family loves him just like his family loves me. His mom wants me to still be with him. He says that he tried to get back with me for three weeks but I didn't want to. & well a lot of guys want to start talking to me and stuff but its just that I only want him. He's my first love.. . What should I do?

[JudyKayTee]

For sure I'd stay away from his mother and family. That can only irritate him.

I think you believe what he says. He wants to be friends right now, nothing more. With time and if you don't push things, you COULD go back to being bf/gf again.

IF, on the other hand, he is upset that you "messed around" with other people during your break it could be over between you.

I'd do nothing and give it a week or two - or longer.