[MonsterChic]

Me and my ex boyfriend went out for two and a half months then he broke up with me because he "wasn't happy anymore". Three weeks later he told me he looks back and asks himself "why did he break up with me" and that "i am everything that he wants in a girl". One week later he asked me out again and I said yes. Four days later he broke up with me because he was getting a full-time job and he needs to be focused on that. During those four days he told me he never wanted to loose me again, he never wanted me to loose him again, he is completely happy with me, and he is really happy to have me back.

I asked him why we wouldn't work out and I could just talk to him after his job. I really want him back and I don't know how to get him back. I need help this happened 5 days ago and I haven't been able to stop thinking about him or be happy or really eaten anything. He told me we would only be friends and there wouldn't be any time for us, but I want him back so badly it's not even funny. He makes me happy and I can be myself around him.

Someone please help me through this.

[Homegirl 50]

He sounds rather flakey. Plenty of people date and have a full time job. I would not waste any more time on him. How old is this guy?

[joypulv]

Is there any chance that you don't have enough of a life of your own? What do you do all day? Maybe if you were busier he would feel less pressure? I'm just guessing because we can't possibly know what's going on with him and what you can do to get him back... usually there is nothing anyone can do to get someone back. But if he feels that he has to break up with you to concentrate on a new job, maybe if you were less available, had things going on in your own life, he would feel better. 'Just talk to him after his job' leads me to believe that you don't have a job? Many people have to have time alone after work.