[asternym]

Me and my girlfriend decided not to have sex because of a pregnancy scare but she turns me on so much and I don't know how to not think of making love to her. I understand why she doesn't want to and it's hard to not get in the mood because she does it all the time!! How can I not get so turned on and have the feeling of making love to her?

[Fr_Chuck]

You get turned on, but you learn to control yourself and know that you don't, So you are not scared about being a father, that is great, so you have a good job, you are ready to provide for a wife and a child. You can provide for them all.

But I am sure she is scared that she will be left pregnant, ( most younger men disappear somewhere about 5 months of pregnancy) the others never make it the first year.

[talaniman]

How old are you both? You are like most guys and its an even more intense urge if you have already done it before. You just have to control the lust, and hormones.