[neha1885]

Hi,
This is Neha here from Mumbai. Need to convince my parents for my love marriage. I really like a guy & we both want to marry. The issue is of the kundali matching which has issues but can be resolved also.

The family background of the guy is also very good & we also belon from the same caste but a different area.

Please suggest.

[JudyKayTee]

Talk to your parents. You have two choices - defy them and be with him OR drop him and obey your parents.

[Jadav]

Hi,
M from Gujarat and I want the help that how could I convince to my parents about my marriage with the girl whom I love. Once I had convince to them but they are against me and not accepting the girl form the marriage even if we both are of the same caste. The girls parents are ready but my parents are not ready. I love her a lot ane she also loves me a lot and we both can't leave without each other if my parents will not agree for marriage with that girl then have no option then!! Only the last option is to do a suiside... Please help me by giving the proper solution... Please Please Please Please...

[JudyKayTee]

I do not take threats of suicide lightly. You both need to see a professional. Life is not a game. AMHD is not a place to play the "suicide game."

If you want help, ask for it.

Your suicide threat helps me understanding why your parents are against the marriage. They undoubtedly think you are too immature to make that decision.

So you have two choices - marry her and defy your parents OR don't marry her and make your parents happy.

Suicide is not an option.