[MysteryUser]

Ok so I watched the movie the VOW. For those of you that has seen it do you feel like it could really be like that?
Im in a relationship where I feel like my mate doesn't know how to do special things and that sux! I have had things done that really wowed me in previous relationships. I feel like IM THE WOWING type and I HAVE wowed my mate several times. Would do it all the time but I JUST don't feel like it because I feel why should I...
Let me give example of wow...
A couple of years ago my mate got me my ring. This is how they gave it to me, well their sister busted them out about it and so that same day I was sitting on the bed and they came in popped out the ring! Will you marry me... wow really.
So I had purchased a ring myself and had it for weeks waiting on the right time.So one night on our way home I say "hey let's stop and walk thru a christmas light trail." So we did and right before we were to leave I said let's sit down on this bench and take a picture. Then I reached in my jacket pocket pulled out the ring and put it on their finger... That's WOW to me!
Simple things like plan a date here and there, you know whatever doesn't happen unless I do it... I'm tired of it but I love them and there is a lot of positive about them... What's more important? I just feel this is a stale and boring relationship and I had so much more fun when I was single... However my mate has helped me accomplish a lot... I just don't know...

[odinn7]

The problem with movies like that... they are not realistic. Most guys are not very romantic. It's just something you need to realize. Movies= fake entertainment. Guys= un-romantic slobs.