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    teddybearbigboy Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 26, 2007, 10:03 AM
    Is it wrong for me to be still in love with someone I hurt?
    I met her over the internet and moved out to her and I kind of didn't tell her everything about me so when I got there she found out how I was. She was hurt that she became heartbroken. But yet I am still in love with her.
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    Feb 26, 2007, 10:11 AM
    She trusted you and you deceived her. That is not something that can be fixed with a 'sorry'. But you could try it anyway. Perhaps write or send a card. Let her know how you feel and how sorry you are that you were not upfront with her.

    Avoid lamenting about how you feel and let her know you know how you made her feel and, if given the chance, would like to prove how much she means to you.

    There are no guarantees but you do owe her an apology.
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    Feb 27, 2007, 11:18 PM
    I think there is a difference between intentional deceit (e.g. lying about your age, kids, married) and simply not bearing your entire soul and life history to someone. He didn't say if they were planning on getting married. Also, I think it's completely ridiculous that a woman would be completely crushed after meeting the Internet man she's been communicating with for the first time if she finds out he has kids or whatever and she didn't ask. Get a grip.
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    Feb 28, 2007, 07:44 AM
    We do not know what exactly this guy withheld information about. It does appear that it was a conscious decision to omit certain information and for that, yes, you owe her an apology. My question - how honest and forthright was she in her information sharing?
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    Feb 28, 2007, 10:21 AM
    She was not as forth coming with information about her. I found out that she still loves her ex husband. That completely killed me. When I found out I tried to let her go but I cant.
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    Apr 25, 2011, 10:11 PM
    OK u both were not honest but still you were dishonest first. You owe her an apology even if she does not forgives you but later on I am sure she will. With time. Good luck. And *** do not lie because I had someone lie to me OVER THE INTERNET and it has been years and I still have NOT gotten over it. I was COMPLETELY honest with the guy. What an *******.

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