[loverati]

I been married to my husband for 10 yrs. He is controlling but never understood that because he was very sweet to me... when every he use t talk to his mom and sister after that 4-5 days his mood toward me and our kid used to be weird he use to shoot as us talk bad things about us... in last 3-4 months I figure this out as if they something to me bad he will cover up those and say that they did not mean that etc. Now I had really bad fight with him and he said he wants divorce I said do as you wish... when he told his mom and sister they siad you should take divorce she is not good for you . And he now says your karma are not good... god is punishing you and this is just start and watch how worst it will get.. he say I am ugly by physically and mentally. I don't understand what to say to him... But one thing is for sure he is becoming meaner day by day... I really need help here.

[kimmathy]

I would contact your local woman's shelter. This is emotional and verbal abuse. They can make arrangements with you, to help you get out. Also for custody issues I would contact your local police department to start having these disputes recorded. Hope this helps and if your not ready to speak with police at least find an organization that would be able to help you personally.