[CaseyTurner]

Basically, I'm 15, this girl from another school walked past and we made eye contact, she was beautiful! I then started messaging her on Facebook and a conversation struck up, I eventually got her number and we started talking by text (we both found each other attractive as featured in the texts). One day I was playing out and she was in the park and I was playing football with my friends and we never spoke/speak in person we just text each other when we are both in sight, I think I fell in love with her because I keep feeling quite protective about her because a drunk man asked her for her number and I began to seem frustrated about it and got quite angry and over-protective. After about 50 texts I asked her if we could start speaking and be friends in person but she hasn't replied yet:

Have I made her feel uncomfortable? Is she busy? Should I just let her have some space and lay off for a while? Am I abit too obsessive/

Please I really need a genuin answer, she means quite a lot to me and I really want to be friends, what shall I do? HELP!

[Homegirl 50]

Have you ever spoken with her on the phone? The next time you see her, go up and say hello instead of texting.

[Alty]

When you say you are overprotective, does she know that, or are you just overprotective in your own mind, without actually voicing it to her?

Give her some time. I find it a bit odd that you've been texting each other, but then see each other in the park and don't even approach each other. Texting isn't friendship, or a relationship. You can't fall in love with someone just through texting.

It sounds like maybe she likes things the way they are right now.