[wwjd9006]

My ex broke up with me 6 months ago. I broke his trust. Iv’e been really open with him and have been working on gaining it back. I’m 20 he’s 28. We talk everyday even though most the time it’s me who makes contact first. He’s nice to me and everything. We hangout every couple weeks. We both have crazy work schedules. I still have his apartment key and a tooth brush at his place. His friends are all still nice to me when they see me out. I want us to work out. Iv’e done everything to reconcile. I asked him a month or so ago and he said he didn’t know about us. I just want him to tell me to move on. But he won’t he just says that he doesn’t know what the future holds. He really did love me and I know I hurt him. But honestly I always thought he would eventually want to get back together. I felt that he broke up with me to see what I would do. My life was a mess and iv’e straitened up and I’m ready to make everything better and be the old us. We never have gotten into a single argument in the year we were together. I was just young and made a dumb choice. We were together a few days ago and he told me he missed me and other stuff. But the sad thing is he was drunk. Why can’t he say that sober. He keeps telling me he’s getting older and I want to move on with him. I want to stay with him the rest of my life. I know I’m young but I love him. I made a mistake and I just don’t know what to say to him to get an answer to move on or make him make his mind up. I can’t keep getting strung along. While he can be out doing God only knows what. I feel like sometimes he tells me things that I want to hear too much. I’m just really confused. It doesn’t make since why he’s still nice to me and we aren’t anything more than just friends.[/B][/B]

[Homegirl 50]

He had told you he does not know what the future holds, when you talk to him you initiate the conversation. It is pretty obvious that he does not see you as a girl friend but only as a friend

He sounds like a mature male who does not like drama, so it is easy to be nice when there are no issues to deal with. He sees you as a friend, nothing more. It's time to move on, he probably has.