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    johnpaul thd Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    May 27, 2012, 02:57 AM
    Am in love with someone, but she has a boyfriend
    Hi, I'm in love with this girl but she has a boyfriend. We always text and anytime we get caught we still always get back in touch with each other. She's told me she fancies me loads of times and we were meant to meet up a few times but we always end up getting caught. I don't know how she feels because I've never asked and I've never told her that I love her, should I? She's been wit her boyfriend 7 years and I know she loves him too, but she's always given out about him and only awhile ago she said to me she wishes she was single and then nothing would stop us meeting up. She's told me she really likes me and we have such a good laugh when were texting and when were talking. What do I do?
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    May 27, 2012, 03:59 PM
    . You can't do that . Don't try an pull her in or nothing . She's undesided . She's been with this guy for a VERY LONG TIME . Its just there getting a little bored you need to tell her that you really like her but she needs to think about it meaning you to leave her alone for a bit . Even if she picks the other guy I'm sure you two would be very close but remmber its just going to hurt people. So wacth what you say and do . Hope I helped (:
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    May 27, 2012, 04:10 PM
    If she has a boyfriend and wishes she was single so she could be with you, then why doesn't she break up with him?

    She's playing you. Either that or she wants to make sure she has another fish on the line before she throws back the one she already caught.

    Bottom line, she's not available. Find someone that is.
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    May 28, 2012, 07:02 AM
    I have told her and she told me that she really likes me to! I don't no what she wants, I have 2 tell her and den when she makes up her mind ill no 4 sure!
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    May 28, 2012, 07:06 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by johnpaul thd View Post
    I have told her n she told me that she really likes me to! I dont no wat she wants, i have 2 tell her n den when she makes up her mind ill no 4 sure!
    Judging by your typing you are what, 13? Please respond in complete words and sentences so that we can understand you. Not all people understand text language.
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    May 28, 2012, 09:51 AM
    Sorry, just so used to doing it.
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    May 28, 2012, 12:15 PM
    This girl has a boyfriend and she is cheating with you. If she wanted to be away from her boyfriend and be with you, she would.
    Wake up dude. You are the second fiddle.
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    May 28, 2012, 12:18 PM
    This is borderline ridiculous, you need to back off and let her decide on her own. Think of yourself in her current boyfriends shoes, how would you feel if she were doing this to YOU? Back off, and let her decide for herself.

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