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    May 23, 2012, 01:06 AM
    What should I do so he will trust me again?
    I am in a relationship for 4 month, that we love each other so much but I lied him many times,he asked about my last relationship and I lied him,he thinks I have such a this relationship with my old friend,I don't know how should I show him you are my life,and how get his trust back,I never lied about my love to him,help me,I don't know what should I do,he told me some days ago that you don't try hard to get back my trust,
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    May 23, 2012, 03:50 PM
    Hey, I lied to my boyfriend about kissing a guy when me and my boyfriend Wasn't even going out. When he found out I had kissed this other guy and didn't tell him, he flipped out. Ever since then, he hasn't really fully trusted me and it really has strained our relationship because he don't even want me talking to the other guy, who was my best friend before I started going out with my boyfriend. He will honestly never trust me again.

    So, my advice to you is that there isn't really anything you can do to gain his trust. You could buy him things, and be nice to him, and tell him you love him a million times. But that isn't going to make the trust issue go away. If you honestly love him like I love my boyfriend, then you'll try to stay with him like I'm doing. But you should know that your relationship isn't going anywhere if he don't trust you. I know my relationship isn't...
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    May 23, 2012, 04:31 PM
    The only way trust cures is if it is mutual and both parties are willing to create it. If he is willing just be honest for now on, don't bring up old issues and move forward with the relationship.
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    May 24, 2012, 02:58 AM
    He gave me time to prove my honesty but some days he remember our bad memory and ask me do you have any other friend? I don't have any relationship with my old friend because of him,I see him every day and I talk to him on the phone more than ten times in a day,but sometimes he tells me some bad things like do you see your friends?. I love him so much,I talked to him last night and told him you can trust on my loyalty... and I love you more than every one and these things,
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    May 24, 2012, 02:59 AM
    He gave me time to prove my honesty but some days he remember our bad memory and ask me do you have any other friend? I don't have any relationship with my old friend because of him,I see him every day and I talk to him on the phone more than ten times in a day,but sometimes he tells me some bad things like do you see your friends?. I love him so much,I talked to him last night and told him you can trust on my loyalty... and I love you more than every one and these things
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