[SMitra21]

Me & my husband are desperately Trying to conceive since 2 yrs in vain. We r Married since 3yrs . We are sexually very active i.e mostly every alt day and I never took any oral contraceptives so far. Jus natural protection during 1st year. After a year of Trying to conceive, we visited Ob/Gyn so advised follicule test for 2 mnths and found that follicules are growing fast so recommended to take Novelon for 2 mtnhs to regulate hormones. I used to also take pregtain for couple of mtnhs. However stopped visits after novelon due to frustration and we kept trying. In the past also last yr had missed my period for almost 2mths. However after novelon tabs stopped in Oct my periodreduced and slight bleeding for 2 days or so. Last Period was arnd Feb 20 and in March around 22 started a lot of abnormal white discharge (Thick & dry and sometimes like egg white but rear). Arnd 28 Feb the White discharge started having tinge of Blood for 3-4 days I thought period will start but the white discharge stopped after almost 13 to 14 day which is unusual as discahrge only happens during ovulation for 4-5 days for me. Again Aprl had discharge towards end of mnth for arnd 3 days or so and now its May 19th No period yet. Took a HPT was -ve. On 17 May my husband during intercourse felt that my vagina opening was tighter and so was it yest whch he ner felt even if we skipped sex for 2 weeks. Then same day had pinkish spotting on wipes only for sometime on 17 and nothing else. I do feel hugry and feel breasts have grown bigger. I have been putting on weight as clothes appear tight. Feel little pain near ovaries at times but maybe it is in my head. Don't want to go to the doc as had stopped visiting him. Didn't take another HPT as fedup of dozens of BFN so far. Please Help... as this month I did not ovulate i.e no discharge & my vagina is dry at times. Plus I have a lot of Gas bubbles moving in my stomach. Could I be pregnant?

[DoulaLC]

With irregular cycles, you may not be ovulating on a regular basis. You may have signs that your body is preparing for ovulation, but that does not mean it is actually happening. The only way to know for certain if you are pregnant would be to test. I would consider having a blood test done instead of the urine test.

If it is negative, it would be wise to ask about other fertility testing that can be done, for both you and your husband. You need to know whether you are ovulating, and, if not, what the cause might be. Then you can focus on trying to get that taken care of. Your husband should also have some testing done as many times there will be a male factor that prohibits pregnancy from occurring, or sometimes from both partners.

If you aren't comfortable with the doctor you were seeing, ask for recommendations from friends, co-workers, family for a different one.