[marriageproblem]

I'm getting old slowly, my girlfriend wants to marry me and her family too want her to marry with me. But I donlt have a job. And I'm on the medication of hallucination. My parents don't want my marriage because I have no job. My elder brother had marriage but it was not successful. My sister in law with a niece lives in sister in law mothers home and have not come home for ages now.

I'm not able to work. I am not constant to work. So income will be poor. I'm dependent on my father. The dependent is my small brother too. But he is now 30 years. And I'm 36. My father has given my small brother work to do and most of the father's office finances are assisted by him. My father doesnot give me money. He just gives me the food. My father knows I have a girlfriend, and he time to time ask me whether I am going to marry or not . If I am going to marry I have to go for the work, I am kind of handicapped to work. And he knows well. And father thinks he don't want me marry and have wife and survive in his money. He feels very discomfort.

I'm getting old slowly, 36. Now. Have some savings but not enough to survive the whole life with wife. What to do? Please help

[LostGirl_86]

Just because you mentally not stable that doesn't mean you don't have the right to be happy... Does she know about your condition?

[marriageproblem]

Yes she knows n we have together gone to my doc few months back.

[LostGirl_86]

So just do what makes u happy... There's a high chance it will even help u to get better! :)

[marriageproblem]

Thank you. In my girlfriend family the talks has begun today. And she was informing me, they are talking about her marriage with me. But on my side..

[LostGirl_86]

Is her family wanting your guys to get married? I hope so... I'm sure it would work out for the best