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    May 18, 2012, 09:01 AM
    Married for 2 1/2 yrs. And in love with my ex boyfriend
    I am in my early 20's and been married for 3 years this year. We have a child together. I was just over eighteen when we got married. And I have been completely in love with my ex since I was very young. We have to be soul mates. I don't exactly know why I went through the whole marriage thing. But I'm thinking its because I was afraid to be alone. I know that my ex is completely in love with me still. And I feel bad for not telling my husband and making him think all sorts of things. Just because I don't want to hurt him. He's done a lot for our family. Also we hardly ever get along. We fight about almost everything. I know I am not happy. And I don't want to be miserable. I need advice really badly.
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    May 18, 2012, 10:20 AM
    YOU should have thought about this before you got married and had a kid... right now you owe this man and your child the respect they are due... and live the life YOU chose 3 years ago... and stop chaseing dreams like a 14 year old.
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