[Crysi24]

hello.. its seems i have found myself in a somewhat awkward situation.
So I have Loved my ex since... way back. I grew up with him and his sister actually. Anyway he was my first.. but he always had a girlfriend, so its like we could not be considered "in a relationship". He got married and we disconnected for the last five years or so.
And now here I am with someone for almost three years, but I don't feel like I get everything I need from this relationship. We had a very negative start to the relationship, fights, arguments, me moving in and out. Only recently I see we are not like "cat and dog" again. But I still do care about him.
So recently I reconnected with my ex, as he and his wife have separated. He's coming around, checking on me, calling from work, just being the way I needed him to be all these years. He tells me he wants to get back together, I tell him he needs time, he says we'll take things slow. Last night he came at my house, planted a kiss on my lips.
So this is my problem, I have never gotten over my ex (since childhood).
Should I go back to him, should I stay with the current boyfriend, who is not looking for commitment anytime soon? I'm confused :(
Anyone can give rational advice thank you much.

[Homegirl 50]

Leave the current boy friend as your heart is not with him, and wait until the ex is actually divorced. In the meantime stay to yourself and figure out what you want out of a relationship.

[Crysi24]

Oh OK.. Thanks...