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    May 15, 2012, 01:20 PM
    My friends questions me when he thinks I
    My classmate questions me when he thinks I'm high but I'm scared to tell him what should I do?
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    May 15, 2012, 01:21 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by doing it right View Post
    my classmate questions me when he thinks i'm high but i'm scared to tell him what should i do?
    Simple... stop getting High... only idiots rely on drugs... or losers. Are you one or both of those?
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    May 15, 2012, 01:33 PM
    No bt I'm an addict but he cares for me and I need his help but I'm scared to tell him any thing
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    May 15, 2012, 03:17 PM
    Then in that case just be honest with him... he's trying to help you... and you admittedly need his help. Don't lie to him... and do your part by not being one of those losers. It does get easier the longer you stay clean...
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    May 17, 2012, 12:31 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Then in that case just be honest with him...he's trying to help you...and you admittedly need his help. Don't lie to him...and do your part by not being one of those losers. It does get easier the longer you stay clean...
    But what if he dosen't believe me and how could I make him keep quiet
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    May 17, 2012, 01:01 PM
    Are you doing it or not? You can't make him be quiet. Here you claim you wasn't smoking.. in another thread you say you are... which is it?
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    May 17, 2012, 01:16 PM
    I am but he tells everyone he can't keep secrets
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    May 17, 2012, 02:29 PM
    Why should he lie to protect you... are you aware that helping someone commit a crime makes them guilty of that crime too?

    Either stand up and be proud you are a drug user and take the consequences of it like an adult... or do the right thing and stop using drugs as crutch instead of dealing with life on its own terms.
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    May 17, 2012, 02:32 PM
    If you are a addict it is not a secret anyway, From the way you act, to the gloss look in your eyes almost anyone that knows you will tell.

    And it sounds like they want to help you. But you prefer to be a drug user, so lose this friend and just hand out with losers.
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    May 17, 2012, 02:34 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    If you are a addict it is not a secret anyway, From the way you act, to the gloss look in your eyes almost anyone that knows you will tell.

    And it sounds like they want to help you. but you prefer to be a drug user, so lose this friend and just hand out with losers.
    Exactly... I've seen so many over my life... you can spot a regular user within seconds of seeing them enter a room, you don't even need to hear them. And you can tell a regular user by how they talk as well. And he sounds exactly like a chronic user (I.E. seriously addicted).

    The only people that actually believe it's a secret are the users themselves. Or family members that are in denial of the obvious.
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    May 17, 2012, 02:59 PM
    How can you tell when someone's high?
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    May 17, 2012, 03:34 PM
    Marijuana
    How Can you tell if someone's high?
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    May 17, 2012, 04:17 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by doing it right View Post
    How Can you tell if someone's high?
    SInce you are FIXATED on this topic... Blood, Hair... test... SMELL.you can see it in their eyes.. you can hear it in their speech... you can see it in how they act... basically everything someone does will indicate it just like it does for a drunk...

    Your reflexes slow... and the list goes on and on and on... basically you can't hide it. It really is that obvious to everyone that's NOT a stoner.
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    May 17, 2012, 04:19 PM
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    how can you tell when someone's high?
    Its obvious you are stoned now... you already asked this question in another thread. Or did you forget?

    Just in case you didn't remember where you did it, this is the thread you asked it..

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-...na-661197.html
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    May 17, 2012, 04:28 PM
    Look at it this way... you aren't being clever... when you are stoned... you may feel you are doing something smart... but in reality you will be acting so obvious the only people that don't notice are those that don't want to.. or don't care.

    And I base that on seeing people that smoke pot over the last 36 years... and I've seen a LOT of people that thought they were being sly that were actually far from it. Stoners are just as cool when they are high as drunks are cool when they are plastered. And the answer to that is not at all.

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