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Hello, I need a women's point of view. I'm 48.My girl is 51. We have been seeing each other for 9 months now.She broke up last week. Things started of great like every relationship does. Now ! From the start she would get upset over her past.Talk about all the nice things she lost in her divorce.It had been over two years now.She hates her job and said it drains her.Being 51 she is all so going through the change.Plus she has a thyroid problems.So I treated her like a queen. Open doors,flowers all the time,candle light dinners and much more. She never spend any of the holla days with me.She had to work and said she was tired.She started pushing me away a lot more. I think she felt I was being needy but I feel all women should be treated right.It's not being needy.Now she was sick for three weeks.I took care of her. Last Thursday she text me.Said what are you doing.I told her I got some food and was on my way there to take care of her. She was very sick.The next morning she said she was glad I read between the lines and came up. Then she took a nap.She got up around 2 am and just about kicked me out.So I left.There was on fighting.I though everything was OK Then she would not talk to me. When I text her she said" I'm in a funk and I don't know what I want.I tried to go see her but she didn't want me there. Then Sunday she said it was over and will not even talk.She sent me a text to tell me.We have had some great times.She even said she enjoyed every moment with me.She will not talk to me.I told her this hurts and she said It hurts her to.So there's something there I know.But what am I missing? She will not talk and I have not bothered her.Hopping if I leave her alone she will miss me and come back.Any thoughts lady's?