[rana_usman]

Hi friends I just lost my first love few months ago ! We both love each since 12 years I loved her the most in the world but she had another boyfriend when I came to know about him I asked her about him and first she said she has no contacts with any other boy but after sometime I got some proofs that she had contact with that boy I asked her again and she refuses again but when I sho her mobile call details then she accept that she had contact with that boy and said sorry to me and I accept her again because I just love her and don't want to lose her and I want to marry her ! But my parents are not agree with me because they also heard about her other boyfriend they refuse to accept her ! After that when our relation is in deep trouble she lied with me once again about something ! After that I leave her without telling her ! Please help me have I done right or wrong ?

[smoothy]

This is simple and nothing you said past the first sentence changes anything.

You grow up... grow a pair of gonads... and you move on with your life and forget her.

Its clear she made her mind up so there is absolutely nothing you can do.

[DoulaLC]

You may have loved her, but she was not as "in love" as you were. If she truly loved and respected you she wouldn't have had another boyfriend. That is not love.

As smoothy said, let her go and move on. You did the right thing. It won't be easy for awhile, but it will get easier.

[Fr_Chuck]

I agree, there is nothing with her, what you had or though you had is not there.

It is time for you to figure out that you move on and accept it is gone and over.

[rana_usman]

Thank you guys