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    triplemaxine Posts: 6, Reputation: 3
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    May 11, 2012, 09:36 AM
    He told me he loves me, but he has a girlfriend.
    Ok so my friend Mika invited me out and while we were out she told me that Dan ( her brother ) wanted to meet me and some of her other friends just to know who she keeps company with.

    Then so I instantly found her brother attractive and so I told Mika " hey I want a picture with him :P lol kidding " but then around 10 minutes after I told her that she pull me to him and makes us get a picture. Then he wraps his arm around me and then we got the picture. Then my other friend says to Dan after seeing my picture with him “hey look you guys look good together” then he says “yeah! She's really pretty “so I thought that was the end of it.

    Then my friend Frances and I transferred malls and while we were on the way to the other mall Mika calls me and says “hey! So I have to tell you something. After you left my bro (Dan) looked for you and got your number and said he'd talk to you “so I like freaked out and got all excited. So then he texted me and started flirting a lot and stuff.

    Then over the weekend, Mika tells me that he has a girlfriend and I like crumbled inside but then I tried not to mind it and just move on.
    Then on Tuesday Mika calls me and asks me to hang and catch a movie so I said sure and then when I got to the mall I found out that Dan was at the mall and was going to be watching and hanging with us so I just tried to keep calm and pretend like he was just a friend. Then when we watched the movie Mika makes him sit next to me. Then during the movie he kept on staring at me and talking and flirting with me.

    After the movie we ended up walking together and then he tells me it's our date! And we end up having a real date and he was so sweet and I fell for him. Then he went home to Cali a week after so we skyped and he told me he loves me and stuff and the thing is, he has a GF! I mean I'm so confused!

    He even asked if I loved him and I said no then he goes but I love you and blah but then he has a f*king girlfriend! And it's killing me!


    I need HELP please! :(
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    May 11, 2012, 10:42 AM
    Why are you letting your friends push a guy with a GF on you? Why are you even going along with it? Why are you going all emo, when all you had to ask is "What about your GF?".

    You can end this drama any time you wish you know, just by being direct, and honest, something he's not. If they cheat with you, they can just as easily cheat on you!
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    May 11, 2012, 09:53 PM
    This sounds like a bunch of unnecessary high school drama. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. You shouldn't make too much of it. Falling with a guy with a girlfriend is a big no-no. Move on with your life and try not to think too much about this.

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