[loveless2012]

Hi, I met my husband when I was 19, he is 12 years older. I am 31 now. Back then we have the same taught, principles and priorities. But I am a touchy person and he is not, but that was covered back then because we seldom see each other and when we date, we miss each other so much.

But when we lived together, his touchiness made a toll on me, specially when I feel vulnerable, badly, it made me feel worse that while I feel sad about work, and wanted to talk about it, I just wanted to toush his hand and he would not want it.

Second, when we had our daughter, we often argue about a lot of things, particularly the balance of work and home. I work and kept my involvement to non government organizations, while he works full-time to it. His parents pays most of the bill, my contribution is for the nanny and some groceries. I do that because her mother lacks respect on me, and since then I never wanted to be fully dependent to them.

So I plan for our daughter, I bought a small land so our daughter can study in that area where schools are good but cheap.

Sadly he does not want to participate, when I asked him if he will stay with me, he do not want to and he told me he will stay with his parents.

Then now, I needed to find a new job, to raise more money to build the house, before we have to decided to help in building it, but as I talked to him, he doesn't do anything about it.

When we talk about it, he doesn't say anything, till finally I have seen our visions going to different direction as we talk about our plans.

He keeps on nagging to the things that I can not do, I told him to stop nagging but he is quite persistent.

Suddenly I woke up not wanting him anymore, because of his persistent nagging, our visions and plans in life going different direction and his lack of intimacy causes me to not want him anymore. What to do? We have a daughter that loves him so much. I wanted to save it.