If we listened to every rumor, story, piece of gossip that we are told, we would go crazy.
I would follow my own senses. If you do not believe these stories, and if your boyfriend is not causing you to doubt him, then ignore what people say. I know that can be hard but you can simply say that you will not listen to gossip about your boyfriend.
Now if someone had some concrete proof - and said that they can prove what they say - I would ask for the proof and then make up my own mind. I would certainly bring that information to my boyfriend and ask for an explanation. If he wants to date two girls at the same time, then you can date two guys at the same time. Fair is fair. When you put it to a guy like it, they shake their head, "no way".
Take care and hope this helped you a little bit.
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